(Building Success Habits) Exploring the laws of the Mirror and Reflection

Londina Cruz & Donna Kunde - “Building Success Habits”

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Introduction
“Personal development is the belief that you are worth the effort, time and energy needed to develop yourself.” - Denis Waitley

“Follow effective action with quiet reflection. From quiet reflection will come even more effective action.” Peter F. Drucker

This season we are going through the book “The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth” by John C Maxwell. You can read the book or just follow along each week as we take a deep dive into each chapter and share our own experiences and insights of how to use the laws in your own life and business for greater results.

We are excited to be on this journey with you and look forward to connecting in our Facebook™ group and online.
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Objectives - The WHY
Today we are going to explore the laws of the Mirror and Reflection. Everyone has the potential to be successful. If that is true, and it is, then what keeps people from success? Often it is because they don’t see their own potential and possibilities. Today’s episode is about learning how to recognize our own value while adding value to others. If you don’t realize that you have genuine value and worth the time to invest in yourself you will never put in the time and effort needed to grow to your potential. 

Key Issues - Owner Perspective:

1. You must see value in yourself to add value to yourself
   
2.  Learning to pause allows growth to catch up with you
   

What You Need to Know - The WHAT

1. The power of self-esteem
   
   1. Self-esteem is the single most significant key to a person’s behavior
      
   2. Low Self-esteem puts a ceiling on our potential
      
   3. The value we place on ourselves is usually the value others place on us
      
2. Steps to build your self-image
   
   1. Guard your talk
      
   2. Stop comparing yourself to others
      
   3. Move beyond limiting beliefs
      
   4. Add value to others
      
   5. Do the right thing, even if it’s the hard thing
      
   6. Practice a small discipline daily in a specific area of your life
      
   7. Celebrate small victories
      
   8. Embrace a positive vision for your life based on what you value
      
   9. Practice one-word strategy
      
   10. Take responsibility for your life
       
3. The power of pausing
   
   1. Reflection turns experience into into insight
      
   2. Everyone needs a time and a place to pause
      
   3. Pausing with intention expands and enriches thinking
      
   4. When you take time to pause, use your I’s (investigation, incubation, illumination, illustration)
      
4. Good questions are the heart of reflection (Personal Awareness Questions)
   
   1. What is my biggest asset?
      
   2. What is my biggest liability?
      
   3. What is my highest high?
      
   4. What is my lowest low?
      
   5. What is my most worthwhile emotion?
      
   6. What is my least worthwhile emotion?
      
   7. What is my best habit?
      
   8. What is my worst habit?
      
   9. What is most fulfilling to me?
      
   10. What do I prize most highly?
       
5. Is it worth it? All of this looks like a lot of steps and a lot of trouble. It is, that’s why most people never do it. Dare to be different!
   

What You Need to Do​​ - The HOW

1. Apply the Law of the Mirror to your life
   
   1. Make a list of all your best personal qualities
      
   2. Monitor your self talk
      
   3. Add value to others and you will feel more valuable
      
2. Apply the Law of Reflection to your life
   
   1. Create a place where you can consistently and effectively pause and reflect.
      
   2. Schedule time to pause and reflect
      
   3. Be intentional with your thinking
      
3. ​Listen to the Building Success Habits Series
   
4. Download the IBGR Business Growth App
   
5. Challenge beliefs that no longer serve you. Quote: Eric Hoffer - “No matter what our achievements might be, we think well of ourselves only in rare moments. We need other people to bear witness against our inner judge, who keeps a book on our shortcomings and transgressions. We need other people to convince us that we are not as bad as we think we are.”
   

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