S9 E29-32 (Building Success Habits) Make Failure Work For You with Londina Cruz & Donna Kunde

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Make Failure Work For You
Failure type personalities show signs and symptoms that can be avoided when we know what to look for. We need to be able to recognize failure symptoms in ourselves so we can take corrective action and do something about them. When we learn to recognize certain personality traits as signposts to failure these symptoms can act automatically as negative feedback. Noone is immune to these negative feelings and attitudes. The important thing is to recognize them for what they are and take positive action to correct the course.   

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E29 F.A.I.L.U.R.E Is Really An Acronym - How to Use It To Your Advantage  |IBGR | Donna Kunde & Londina Cruz 

1.  “Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.” - Robert F. Kennedy
   
2. FAILURE when used as an acronym helps us get a complete picture of the Failure Mechanism and traits of Failure-Type personalities. The traits of a failure-type personality include:
   
   1. Frustration (hopelessness, futility) - an emotional feeling that develops whenever some important goal cannot be realized or when some strong desire is thwarted.
      
   2. Aggressiveness (misdirected) - The failure-type personality does not direct their aggressiveness toward the accomplishment of a worthwhile goal.
      
   3. Insecurity - the feeling of insecurity is based on a concept or belief of inner inadequacy
      
   4. Loneliness (lack of “oneness”) - this type of loneliness is caused by an alienation from life
      
   5. Uncertainty - this is a way of avoiding mistakes and responsibilities
      
   6. Resentment - an attempt to make our own failure palatable by explaining it in terms of unfair treatment or injustice
      
   7. Emptiness - a symptom that you are not living creatively. Emptiness and an inadequate self image go together
      

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E30 Be Aware of Negatives - But Don’t Focus On Them |IBGR | Donna Kunde & Londina Cruz 

1. “Focus on the positives, and soon the negatives will disappear”. - Anonymous 
   
2. We would be lying if we said that following the Success Habits we share will remove all negativity from our lives and from our results. The truth is, we will all continue to experience the negatives. The difference is, failure-type personalities focus mostly on the negatives. 
   
3. What we focus on we get. The more we focus on what we don’t want, the more it shows up. We need to be aware of negatives but not focus on them.
   
4. Set every goal in the positive. Take every temporary failure, look for the lesson and move forward.
   

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E31 How to Use Negative Thinking for Positive Results |IBGR | Donna Kunde & Londina Cruz 

1. “I walk into every situation expecting the best” - Anonymous
   
2. Negative thinking, when used correctly can help us steer clear of negatives that show up in our lives. 
   
3. We want to glance at the negatives but focus on the positive. Used correctly this type of “negative thinking” can work for us to lead us to success if:
   
   1. We are sensitive to the negative to the extent that it can alert us to danger
      
   2. We recognize the negative for what it is - something undesirable, something we don’t want, something that does not bring us genuine happiness
      
   3. We take immediate corrective action and substitute an opposite positive factore from the Success Mechanism. This will create a sort of automatic reflex that becomes part of our inner guidance system. 
      
4. Negative feedback will act as a sort of automatic control to help us “steer clear” of failure and guide us to success. 
   

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E32 How To Turn The Table on Failure |IBGR | Donna Kunde & Londina Cruz

1. "Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising every time we fail." ― Confucius
   
2. Nobody sits down and deliberately decides to develop these negative traits. They do not “just happen” and they are not an indication of the imperfection of human nature. 
   
3. Each of these negatives was originally adopted as a way to solve a difficulty or a problem. We adopted them because we mistakenly believed them to be a way out of some difficulty. They have meaning and purpose but are based on a mistaken premise. 
   
4. The only way to cure these failure symptoms is through understanding and not by willpower. The truth can set us free from them. The truth is, they do not work and they are not solving our problems. When we can see this truth, the same instinctive forces that caused us to adopt them in the first place will work on our behalf to get rid of them. 
   

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