The Mindset of a Successful Network Marketer - Falling in Love with Failure

Theme – Falling in Love with Failure

Welcome to the TENTH week of Season 9 - Building YOU to BUILD your BUSINESS with Ravin Papiah

This week we are going to talk about Falling in Love with FAILURE! You will want to listen to the next four episodes because ….as a Network Marketing Professional on your way to become a Network Marketing Superstar, you would want to know what makes a network marketer Fall in love with Failure and keep going in the face of obstacles and adversities and keeping their eyes fixed on their goals, so that they can achieve what they have determined to do and  sustain their success over time while continuously getting to the NEXT levels.

Failure – We all experience it. But only some people know how to learn from it to be more successful in the future. This show today explores the meaning of failure, the relationship between success and failure, and why one shouldn’t fear failing.

It's natural to try to avoid things that could end in failure. Failure can be embarrassing and painful to experience. But what is failure exactly?

Failure is defined as a lack of success or the inability to meet an expectation.

The problem is that we can read too much into failure. Too often, we tie it to our sense of self-worth, self-esteem, and self-acceptance. The expectation we fail to meet is often our own, or one that we've created in our own head.

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E37 Understanding the POWER (power = energy) Failure Triggers

​Most of us don't set out looking to fail at anything. And we especially don’t want to be labeled as a failure. But maybe that is a mistake.

Failure can be useful. We can learn from it, gain new insights, and do better next time. The right kind of failures give us new information and teach us something that gets us closer to our goals.

Some live by the motto: If you aren't failing you aren't taking big enough risks. Said another way, if everything you try turns out exactly as planned and feels very comfortable, you probably aren't stretching yourself. And if you aren't stretching, you aren't growing.

A fairly common understanding of failure is setting a goal, but not achieving it.
We tend to believe that knowing whether or not you achieved a goal is fairly simple and straightforward. It’s often based on data. But in truth, failure is often in the eye of the beholder.

Imagine yourself in each of these three scenarios and whether you'd consider yourself to have failed:

1. An experienced marathon runner sets a goal to run her next marathon in under three-and-a-half hours. This goal is a full 15 minutes shorter than her prior best time. She completes the marathon in 3 hours and 36 minutes. Besting her prior record by nine minutes.
   
   
   
2. A director seeks a promotion to EVP and competes against other internal and external candidates. He receives positive feedback. But He gets told that the leadership team felt that hiring an external person would demonstrate their commitment to innovation.
   
3. A top young professional at an organization gets asked to prepare a presentation for a high-profile meeting. He submits what he considers to be an excellent presentation to his boss. The boss praises the work but substantially changes the slides before the big meeting.
   

Notice that the differentiator in all three of these failure analysis examples is an ideal we've set in our minds.

Measuring goal achievement can be a subjective and political activity. And in each of these examples above, you can sense that the individuals tried hard and performed well in their efforts.

Perhaps that common definition of being in failure mode as "not achieving a goal" isn't so accurate and straightforward, after all.

I can help you to put your desire to work. IF you are willing to join my coaching, whether group coaching or one on one coaching, please e-mail me at ravinpapiahleadership@gmail.com, or watsapp me on +23052507999

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E38  Using the POWER of Failure

William Arudda, in his article ‘Why Failure is essential to Success’, says that  failure is not a step backward; it’s an excellent stepping stone to success. We never learn to move out of our comfort zone if we don’t overcome our fear of failure. The most progressive companies deliberately seek employees with track records reflecting both failure and success. That’s because someone who survives failure has gained irreplaceable knowledge and the unstoppable perseverance born from overcoming hardship.

To learn more about the benefits of failing, William reached out to executive coach and speaker Dr Sam Collins. A leading global voice on women as leaders and entrepreneurs, she was named one of the Top 200 Women to Impact Business & Industry by Her Majesty, the Queen of England. Sam just wrote a book about failure – her failures – and how they have had a profoundly positive impact on her life.

Listen to the live show for me sharing to you some of the conversation between William and Sam

I can help you to have massive success in your life, both personal and professional, please e-mail me at ravinpapiahleadership@gmail.com, or watsapp me on +23052507999
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E39 How to Channel the Energy Produced from Failure
​Continuing the conversation, how do you think we can channel the energy produced from failure?

Let me give you some insights….

And that’s the rest of the conversation between William and Sam:

Arruda: And what did you learn?

Collins: My lesson was to embrace failure and see it as a stepping stone on the way to success. Failing is an inevitable part of creating your destiny, and it gave me the platform to start my own business and follow my biggest dreams. I had nothing to lose. Now, I welcome it. After learning to deal with disappointment, I knew persistence and dedication to my goals would eventually be rewarded.

Arruda: What can we learn from our failures?

Collins: If nothing else, I hope you realize failure is temporary, and failure is good even if, undeniably, it feels really bad when it happens. When something goes wrong, we need to learn to say, "Something good is happening here. Look for the greater message of the experience and expect it to, eventually, turn out for the good. Recognizing this gets easier with practice.

Arruda: In your book, you recommend “routine failing.” Can you share more about that?

Collins: I heartily recommend routine failing. It means you are actually active, doing something, moving forward. Too often we buy into what society says, or what the past has shown us, will work or not work. When we do that, we limit ourselves, and we impede our ability to make big things happen. 

Listen to the live show for me to continue sharing with you the rest of the conversation between William and Sam…




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E40 – Failure …. Fail + Lure … The “LURE” of Failure” (self sabotage)

While it seems surprising, some people undermine their own good intentions and long-term goals. Self-sabotage occurs when people hinder their own success.
When people take these destructive steps, their harmful behavior can negatively impact nearly every part of their lives including their relationships and career.
So, Why Do People Self-Sabotage?
People thwart their progress for a variety of reasons. They may consciously or unconsciously commit acts of self-sabotage. The causes range from childhood issues to prior relationship effects. Other reasons for this type of destructive behavior vary from low self-esteem and coping problems to problems with cognitive dissonance.
Conscious and Unconscious Self-Sabotage
People who self-sabotage might be aware of their actions. For example, someone who's overweight and on a diet might consciously sabotage their good efforts by eating a whole carton of ice cream.
Or they might unconsciously act. A person misses a work deadline. On the surface, it seems like he was running late. But the truth is he’s afraid of failure. He self-sabotages by missing the due date, thus he thwarts his goal to move up in the company.
Mental health practitioners have identified common ways people self-sabotage. Three easy-to-identify ways include procrastination, perfectionism, and self-medication.
Listen to the live show to learn more about self-sabotaging and how you can stop that….

I can help you build the correct mindset for massive success in your life, both personal and professional. IF you are willing to join my coaching, whether group coaching or one on one coaching, please e-mail me at ravinpapiahleadership@gmail.com, or watsapp me on +23052507999.
 

If you are not aware, you are nowhere! So, pick up your smartphone, AND watsapp me NOW to change your life forever! Ravin

If you want to work with me, register using this link: https://bit.ly/3z5MuRz

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Ravin Souvendra Papiah started his life by being doomed by doctors of an early childhood death. Being born as a very weak child played into his favour whereby he was introduced to reading by a teacher while his friends were enjoying their recreational time outside the class, playing. He has defied the doctors and today, he stands as a father, reader, trainer, coach, public speaker, writer, radio host and Influencer. 
He discovered that his purpose is to help others grow to their optimum self. Being an avid fan of personal growth and reading, he believes that it can transform a person and consequently, his life, thus he encourages others to do the same. He insists that every person has the potential to become whom they want to become. The first step is to have faith in themselves and becoming more conscious of who they are now and who they can become. “When you are NOT aware, you are NOWHERE” has become the emblem of Ravin Papiah. 

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An Amazon No. 1 International Music Artist, and a 5-times Amazon No.1 Best Selling Author,  Ravin Papiah is an Entrepreneur having achieved worldwide recognition with Forever Living Products. For 7 consecutive years, including 2019, he has been among the TOP 300 amongst 12 million Forever Business Owners in the world, racking up international Awards and Travels. 

Recipient of 8 International Championships from World Book International and a 7-times Chairman Bonus Manager with Forever Living Products, Ravin holds a Master degree in Business administration (MBA - Leadership & Innovation) from Ducere Global Business School, Australia and an Executive Master in Marketing from Paris-Dauphine University. He also holds a BSc (Hons) in Business Studies, an Advanced Certificate in Human Resource Management, a Diploma in Hotel Management from SHATEC, a Diploma in Management with specialisation in Marketing Management from the University of Mauritius, a Postgraduate Diploma in Marketing from the Chartered Institute of Marketing, and a Postgraduate Diploma in Training & Performance Management from the University of Leicester. He also graduated from EMLYON Business School in ‘Certificat de Formation au Management’. He is now completing an Executive Master in Marketing with Paris Dauphine University, France and reading a PhD at the Open University of Mauritius.

Ravin is a Distinguished Toastmaster (DTM) and an Accredited Trainer of the Toastmasters Leadership Institute. Ravin is actually an Area Director for Toastmasters International for the Division of Mauritius under District 74 of South Africa. 

A Founder Partner, Executive Director and a Certified Speaker, Trainer & Coach of the Maxwell Leadership Certified Team, a Licensed Trainer of Gitomer Certified Trainers, and a Certified Canfield Trainer, Ravin is the Managing Director of the Ravin Papiah Leadership Institute.

Ravin is also the Founder of the 3 different Maxwell Speakers Clubs International Mauritius, for Adults, Teens and Youth. 

A National Champion at the National Toastmasters Convention in 2013, 2014 and 2015, Ravin hosts the weekly radio show ‘Building You to Build Your Business’ with International Business Growth Radio (IBGR) broadcasted in more than 175 countries and available as a podcast on all the major podcasts directories like Apple and Spotify.

Ravin Papiah is grateful to each and every person who believed in him and who supported him by  learning from him and growing themselves towards their greatest potential. Together with his new team of Influencers, he is aiming to lead the world to becoming a better place. They are starting at the source - with the children. They are providing free training to youth organisations, NGOs and schools, colleges and Universities to start the emergence of a new generation of Mauritians with an abundance mindset. That does not mean that it’s too late for the elders. He believes that age is not a factor that would stop you from doing what you want. You just have to be open to it!

More information can be retrieved on his LinkedIn page, Facebook pages, and the following website: http://www.johncmaxwellgroup.com/ravinsouvendrapapiah/
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See you Next Thursday (15 00 GMT – 19 00 Mauritius) for our Season 9 WEEK 11, where we look at how you can a Mindset of a Successful Network Marketer!

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